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I have been addressing the subject of honor, using exerts from my book, Friendship With God – The Empowerment of Honor and Grace. I am going to continue on that same topic today and present another excerpt from my book. This book can be found on Amazon in Print, E-book, and audiobook.
Defining Honor:
What is honor? Honor is recognizing the value of someone else and then giving him or her something of us. When we give honor to someone, we give something of ourselves to approve of who they are and distinguish their value. Our attitude, and our actions are a testimony of recognizing who he or she is. Within a healthy sphere of life there is a healthy measure of honor between members of that sphere. A culture of honor embodies an atmosphere and a reality that always favors life. Life honors life! Honor creates, promotes, inspires, and protects life. Honorable life does not produce the fruit of death.
Even when we have problems, we must always think of how we can bring life to the situation. Sometimes honor includes difficult situations and decisions. If I was stranded in a snowstorm in the mountains for many days, it is very likely that I would freeze my fingers and my toes, and I would have trouble in my body. I would need to recognize the trouble in my body, and the danger to my very life. In that situation some difficult decisions would have to be made that would recognize the value of who I am as a person. Those decisions would involve pain and sacrifice. If I wanted to live, I would have to remove what was dead in my body. If I didn’t cut away what was dead, the rest of me would die.
We tend to think in humanistic ways. Sometimes we confuse wisdom with abuse and believe that wisdom from God will never involve pain or decisions that cause pain in the body. We often think that honor involves being kind to one another, but in the case of having frozen fingers or frozen toes, the kind thing to do is to take some drastic measures of amputation to preserve the life of my body. Though this is difficult, it is wisdom, not abuse.
In John chapter 15, Jesus compared our relationship with Him with that of being branches on a vine.
John 15:1-2 “I am the true vine, and My Father is the vinedresser. Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit He prunes, that it may bear more fruit.”
In this story, dead branches are removed and there are branches that are fruitful that are cut back. The process of cutting can be viewed as painful to the vine and even misunderstood by someone who loves the vine more than they do the vinedresser.
The vinedresser is God our Father, and He knows the value of who we are. His act of pruning is an action of honor for who we are as part of the vine. The vinedresser does this, so the vine will produce much fruit. He cuts dead things off and He even prunes living branches to shape them in a way that will produce fruit and carry the weight of fruit in the future without breaking branches. No branch is allowed to simply grow for the glory of itself.
If we have feelings for the branches of the vine beyond the feelings of the Creator, or less than the feelings of the Creator, we will fall short of honor by resisting what the Creator desires to do. We might think we are being kind when we don’t want to harm anything, but we are being less than the Creator in our thinking.
In our own lives, God honors us by removing things that are not beneficial to the fullness of life. He shapes our attitudes and our desires so that we will bear more fruit. A family’s attitude must be formed in the heart of every family member and the attributes and characteristics of a family must be shaped in them to fulfill the purpose and destiny of the family. That process is honorable.
Jesus compared our relationship with Him with that of being branches on a vine. God honors the vine by pruning it. God honors us by pruning us. He cuts away the things that are dead. He trims back the things that grow quickly, knowing they will not carry the weight of the destiny of the future. That is part of a culture of honor. [1]
Food For Thought,
Ted J. Hanson
[1] Ted J. Hanson, Friendship With God – The Empowerment of Honor and Grace, (Bellingham, WA: House of Bread Publishing, 2022), pp. 18-19.
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